Introducing...
Marcus Jeffrey
8 lbs 7 oz. 20 1/4 inches long
He was born at home Friday morning at 8:46 a.m. with the help of 3 wonderful midwives. It was amazing to be in your own environment and they were much more attune and supportive to what is going on than either of our other birth experiences which were both in hospital. We are very thankful for them!!
And now we are three ;)
10 little toes
5 little fingers which are very long and dainty for a little man.
Phi has been talking about the baby coming for the last few months and I didn't know if he really knew what he was saying or not. But when they got here Friday afternoon he came in all apprehensive (he doesn't take change or new situations too well) and upon seeing mommy with the baby wanted nothing to do with him or me and quickly asked to hold grandma. But after playing for 20 minutes and seeing grandma and Aunt TeTe hold baby brother he marched over to the couch and was ready to hold him. After a minute or two he was done and went strutting off quite pleased with him self. :)
Big brother Leroy was and is quite fascinated by him. He finds it quite amusing that little brother's hands wave around and will randomly grab his, and the fact that this dolly makes squeaks and squawks.
An unwilling model of the hat Chatty made for his oldest brother when he was born.
And his first visitors, Aunt TeTe
And Amma
And Miss Kate and her Mommy and Daddy who just made it into town the evening before he arrived.
Mommy and her boys
The boys have been at Bumpa and Amma's for the last few days, they went over Thursday night when we thought something was starting. Contractions started and we called the midwives who came and hung out for a few hours and then the contractions stopped. I was very bummed thinking this was just another false start, the midwives went to dinner and came back while we took a walk but things still didn't pick up. So they all went home saying they thought they would be back. And they were right, with in the next three hours things picked up again and they were back to help through the night. We tried a birthing pool which really helped with the labor part but didn't actually give birth in it as it was keeping the contractions too far apart. It's been soo nice to just be home and have your own bed at night and not be bothered by anyone unless the baby wakes up.
First night with Daddy and Mommy
(finally one little eye open)
He really reminds me right now of his oldest brother at this age, but time will tell. When he's awake and squirming he has a very pronounced little dimple on the left cheek that will be quite cute if it stays. We're enjoying our newest little man and very thankful to the Lord for his safe healthy arrival. And thankful for Bumpa and Amma and Aunt TeTe who have been watching the other two little men for the last two days. The boys came home last night for the night and today since Daddy's here right now but will probably go back to Bumpa and Amma's tonight. It has been fun having them here getting used to having three, and so far has gone smoothly though I'm sure there will be those moments. It's nice to be able to work up to it gradually. Phi has been wanting to include him in his toys and offering him his food at meal times and wanting to hold him off and on. Leroy regards him as his newest source of entertainment and so far has been pretty careful but will definitely bare watching when together.
And me... I can finally bend over again and of course feel 20 pounds lighter it's been imposible to stay in bed for the recomended 3 days. We are being careful and doing very well.