Sunday, May 3, 2009

At long last...

Introducing...

Marcus Jeffrey
8 lbs 7 oz. 20 1/4 inches long

He was born at home Friday morning at 8:46 a.m. with the help of 3 wonderful midwives. It was amazing to be in your own environment and they were much more attune and supportive to what is going on than either of our other birth experiences which were both in hospital. We are very thankful for them!!

And now we are three ;)


10 little toes

5 little fingers which are very long and dainty for a little man.


Phi has been talking about the baby coming for the last few months and I didn't know if he really knew what he was saying or not. But when they got here Friday afternoon he came in all apprehensive (he doesn't take change or new situations too well) and upon seeing mommy with the baby wanted nothing to do with him or me and quickly asked to hold grandma. But after playing for 20 minutes and seeing grandma and Aunt TeTe hold baby brother he marched over to the couch and was ready to hold him. After a minute or two he was done and went strutting off quite pleased with him self. :)


Big brother Leroy was and is quite fascinated by him. He finds it quite amusing that little brother's hands wave around and will randomly grab his, and the fact that this dolly makes squeaks and squawks.


An unwilling model of the hat Chatty made for his oldest brother when he was born.

And his first visitors, Aunt TeTe

And Amma

And Miss Kate and her Mommy and Daddy who just made it into town the evening before he arrived.

Mommy and her boys


The boys have been at Bumpa and Amma's for the last few days, they went over Thursday night when we thought something was starting. Contractions started and we called the midwives who came and hung out for a few hours and then the contractions stopped. I was very bummed thinking this was just another false start, the midwives went to dinner and came back while we took a walk but things still didn't pick up. So they all went home saying they thought they would be back. And they were right, with in the next three hours things picked up again and they were back to help through the night. We tried a birthing pool which really helped with the labor part but didn't actually give birth in it as it was keeping the contractions too far apart. It's been soo nice to just be home and have your own bed at night and not be bothered by anyone unless the baby wakes up.
First night with Daddy and Mommy
(finally one little eye open)

He really reminds me right now of his oldest brother at this age, but time will tell. When he's awake and squirming he has a very pronounced little dimple on the left cheek that will be quite cute if it stays. We're enjoying our newest little man and very thankful to the Lord for his safe healthy arrival. And thankful for Bumpa and Amma and Aunt TeTe who have been watching the other two little men for the last two days. The boys came home last night for the night and today since Daddy's here right now but will probably go back to Bumpa and Amma's tonight. It has been fun having them here getting used to having three, and so far has gone smoothly though I'm sure there will be those moments. It's nice to be able to work up to it gradually. Phi has been wanting to include him in his toys and offering him his food at meal times and wanting to hold him off and on. Leroy regards him as his newest source of entertainment and so far has been pretty careful but will definitely bare watching when together.

And me... I can finally bend over again and of course feel 20 pounds lighter it's been imposible to stay in bed for the recomended 3 days. We are being careful and doing very well.

12 comments:

Glenda Conner said...

Good work Mama!;) Congratulations on your beautiful new little bundle and hugs and prayers for a speedy recovery!

Amy said...

Your new arrival is very sweet! So glad everything went well and you are both healthy. Love the little hat with the ears!

Mary said...

Congratulations! I was so happy for you when I heard you had him on Friday. I'm so glad your home birth went so well. I've never had a hospital birth, so I can't compare but I've loved my home births(minus the pain of course!). I'd never be able to stay three days in bed, either! Noah was the hardest and I don't think I stayed in bed for three days with him. So glad your mom is able to take the other two for you so you can adjust slowly. That will be a big help. Enjoy your new little guy!

~Holly~ said...

Congratulations! He's such a little cutie! A home birth sounds really nice, unfortunately there are NO midwives where I live, and I don't think I'd be brave enough to do it alone. Glad everything went so well!

NaomiG said...

Congratulations!!! SO CUTE! Love the pics of his Bros. and Miss Kate holding him... darling. So very glad it all went well...

DallasandLisa said...

He is so ADORABLE! Congratulations! I'm was glad to hear of the safe arrival and that everything went well. It's nice that you have family around to help with your other busy little men. Hope recovery is swift!

Susan said...

We are so happy for you, and I know the wonderful feeling of relief to have that little one in your arms instead of in your tummy. Love the picture with your 3 boys! We enjoyed our home births also....SO relaxing and peaceful (well, as much as a birth can be). Praise the Lord for a safe birth and healthy boy!

The Chatty Housewife said...

He is ADORABLE! Congratulations. I am glad you were able to have a home birth like you wanted, it sounds so much more relaxing and healthy! The photo of the three boys with their mama is so cute. Glad the bear hat is holding up, I thought the ears would have fallen off by now or something. :) I am so excited for you guys and that you have this new little one to take care of. He reminds me a lot of Phi, but with Leroy's colorings. I can't wait to see the dimple!

Brooke said...

So very sweet. Good job, you make some cute little men!

KLamb said...

Congratulations. I was thinking that baby should have made his arrival soon! What a cutie!

robyn said...

What a precious blue bundle of joy! I'm so glad to hear the birth went well. Here's to being a family of five now...way to go, guys!

Mandy said...

Another sweet baby boy! He's beautiful! Congratulations! Enjoy!